Learning about sex and sexual health isn’t something that happens in just one talk. Likewise, information about sex doesn’t (and shouldn’t) all come from one place. It’s a learning process!
Universal Truths
- Your kids are going to be exposed to information about sex. From locker room talk to the radio to the phone in their pockets, it’s impossible to avoid.
- The goal is to get them the safety information they need BEFORE they need it – know how to use a condom before you’re trying to put one on, know about birth control before you’re sexually active.
- More real info = healthier people. Teens themselves say that more open and honest info – especially from you – would help them wait longer to have sex and be safer when they do.
- It’s not ONLY about sex. At any age, respect and consent should always be underlying themes.
School-Based Sex Ed
- School-based sex education can be limited, and it varies from place to place.
- As a parent, you have the right (by law, in North Carolina) to check out what’s being in taught in school.
- Don’t expect school-based sex ed to go beyond the very basics: body parts, puberty, human reproduction, and a brief overview of STDs and birth control methods.
Your Role
- Since school sex ed is basic, it’s up to you to fill in the gaps.
- Use the tips on this site to guide your conversations.
- Remember that helping your teen connect with good information, resources, and health care makes you an awesome parent.
Still not convinced?
Read this infographic for age appropriate sex talks.
Here are 13 reasons why you should talk to your teen about sexual health.
Click below for curriculum guides to see what your teen is ready to learn:
